You talk to her man, you tell her what you told me, you tell her how much you love her.
At the end of the day it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks if you two love each other then go for it, it doesn't hurt to try.
Just talk to her, brave it out man and tell her from the bottom of your heart how you feel!!
Best,
Kenneth
Shayna ,
what u just read it what my "trans" friend kenneth
wrote me ... he is my age an was born with the same
disorder i got !
I was doing some thinking .. i love u very much ... But shay something u got to try ur best to understand about me is that i am GID an no its not because ppl tell me im cuter as a boy ..it's not because people say my life will change it's not even because its a life style choice Im gonna do my damnest to make u understand an if u walk away not caring than thats u !
Lets see where do i start 1st I was 8 years old when it was first discovered in me that i have GID , my mom never supporting that ! she always maid me feel like shit if anything tellin me to check my underwear that im not male my step dad use to always ask me "why" honestly i dont know why i have this disorder but i will tell u what i do know about the disorder no one knows what causes it no one knows "why" all anyone knows about it is that its a birth effect
Ur right i probably will make a pretty fucked up man but u know what thats me ! I love u from the bottom of my heart an i'd do anything for u ... girl u have no idea how many times i've sat an cryed about all this shit ... i dont want to lose u ever ! but i've also decided that chasing u would be wrong too ... because i've tryed just about as much as i can possabily try with u shay !
I Love u to death an the most hardest thing in the world to do is to say im gonna be who i am ...an ur gonna have to accept it or let me go ...
Ask cindy .. its hard for me ! an also ask her about my GID if u'd like i've lived with it forever its no ones fault that i have this ! it's not ur fault its not my moms fault its not my dad fault its not my brother or sisters fault it's not gods fault an its not my fault .,/p>
No one has ever supported me an the fact that i have GID an especialy my mother okay for the first time in my life i do feel like im in the right place at the right time .. cindy an my dad atleast try to understand it ! an thats all i ask of anyone is to atleast try to understand it !
I'm not sayin all this to hurt u or bring u down because i do love u an the last thing in the world i ever want is to hurt u or make u cry or anything . If this stuff is to much for u than tell me ..
I love u very much please promise me that no matter
what the hell happeneds with me an u rather u accept
me or not please just know that no matter what u think
of me i will always love u ...
ALWAYS
An if u are willing to give it a try an accept me than thats great i will help u understand ! but u got to want to understand !,/p>
I love u
ALways an forever , Brandy (jeremy)
FURTHER READING as sent by Jeremy to shayna
http://www.brownsteinmd.com/femaletomale.html - ftm resources and links
http://www.transgenderlaw.org/ (not sure about this one)
http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Park/5997/tsection.htm - T* issues
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