As a result of media interest over the last few years, the world at large is acquiring a greater awareness of gender identity problems in adults, but it is not yet widely known that children and adolescents can also suffer from gender identity disorders. However, there is now an increasing awareness that gender problems have their roots in childhood, often associated with emotional and behavioural difficulties. Children with such problems often experience intense distress, especially in adolescence. Social problems are common, both at home and at school; learning difficulties, school refusal, anxieties, depression and suicide attempts are also common. It is therefore imperative that such problems can be recognised early in life (even as early as pre-school): with the right help, support and treatment these children can be helped to tolerate living in these distressing conditions until eventually a solution to the gender identity conflict can be found.
Gender Identity Disorders in infancy, childhood and adolescence are complex and have varied causes: in the majority of cases the eventual outcome will be homosexuality or bisexuality, but often there will be a heterosexual outcome as some gender issues can be caused by a bereavement, a dysfunctional family life, or (rarely) by abuse. Only a small proportion of cases will result in a transsexual outcome. Whatever the cause, a child with a gender identity problem is very often deeply unhappy, and their family will suffer as a result. It is essential that sympathetic and non-judgmental help be sought in order to help the child or adolescent, and their family. A multi-disciplinary service is now provided by the Gender Identity Development Service, which is part of the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust - this is the only gender clinic in the UK solely dedicated to helping children and adolescents up to the age of eighteen years. It has no catchment area - it will accept referrals from professionals in Health, Social Service and Education departments in all areas. They will also accept self referrals of families or adolescents over the age of 16.
A number of families attending this clinic have identified a need to form a support group, 'Mermaids', to aid other families, children and teenagers in similar situations. Having themselves gained benefit from mutual support, shared experiences, and understanding, they know that contact with others can alleviate feelings of lonliness and alienation, and can bring strength and understanding to very difficult situations. 'Mermaids' members can offer information and support, either by letter, telephone, or in person depending on locality. For further details of 'Mermaids', please send a stamped addressed 22cm x 11cm envelope to:
07020 935066 - 12 noon until 9pm only, UK Time